Financial trauma healing is a core pillar of my purpose and probably the #1 reason why people come to me. Lately I’ve been intuitively tapping into a collective that is ready to transmute scarcity, which is a form of financial trauma.
Here’s a message that I channelled for this collective, that may come at the right time for you, if you are part of it:
“At its core, scarcity is the trauma-reponse of hyper-independence stemming from the very painful reality of having been financially or emotionally abandoned by the people that were supposed to shelter us, and having been forced to figure it out all alone.
Scarcity says: I have to hold tight onto resources to secure my future because no one is going to be there to protect me or to help me out if I struggle. I am all alone.
Healing scarcity says: I am worthy of having supportive, resourceful relationships that can have my back if will ever need it. I am worthy of support, and I no longer have to figure it out all alone. It is safe to enjoy life now. It is safe to know that I am no longer alone, and that I don’t have to figure it out all alone anymore.”
It makes so much sense that when we grow up without the option to rely on others when our own resources get depleted, scarcity becomes our conditioned response. We learn to hold onto resources as a way to help out future selves, because we know that if this happened in the past, it’s possible that in the future, too, no one will be there to help us when we will be in lack. So we use savings, planning, and holding onto resources as the replacement for the support that we would be wired to know we would be worthy of if we would have been coming from a more secure and reliant upbringing.
This is such an understandable response, yet such a sad one.
We are not allowing this to be our life story.
You are worthy of support, and of knowing that someone else has got your back when you simply cannot…carry it anymore.
And if I am gifted at one thing, it is to hold you when your own resources are not there anymore. To be the one that shows up when you’ve projected that no one will be there. Having people step up to hold you when your own capacity is exhausted is your birthright.”
With support,
Sorina